• Keeping an Active Love Life in Your 40’s

    It is incumbent that this be a complete guide for a women staring down her 40's and love is a huge part of your overall well-being. Let's say you have been married for a long time now and have kids who are getting older and starting to lead their own lives. This is a very challenging time for many couples because they no longer remember what it was like to have more free time with each other. The natural tendency is to fear this time and repel away from one another but the healthy thing to do is to start rediscovering one another. Remember, your 40's are not a time of declination, simply a time of transition.




     

    Keeping an Active Love Life in Your 40’s

     

    It is incumbent that this be a complete guide for a women staring down her 40’s and love is a huge part of your overall well-being. Let’s say you have been married for a long time now and have kids who are getting older and starting to lead their own lives. This is a very challenging time for many couples because they no longer remember what it was like to have more free time with each other. The natural tendency is to fear this time and repel away from one another but the healthy thing to do is to start rediscovering one another. Remember, your 40’s are not a time of declination, simply a time of transition.

    Rekindling the physical fire that you shared with your loved one is very important at this adjustment phase so focus on a few things: the best features of your body and the way your present yourself. You may have gotten very comfortable with your man throughout the course of your relationship and that is a great thing but also remember that he doesn’t always want to see you in sweatpants and a flannel. Take stock in your looks, wear a dress you haven’t worn in years, buy some new clothes to accommodate your 40 something body and make him remember why he was so attracted to you.

    It can be hard to convey your feelings at this age. You may be feeling insecure about your looks, wary about the future or even feel that you have grown apart from your loved one over the years but this is a very crucial stage in your life where you must convey feelings. In a perfect world, men would just know how their women feel but we don’t live in a perfect world. Try being a little more assertive when it comes to talking about feelings as this will strengthen your bond with your man. You will be surprised at how receptive he will be when you are more forthright and take the guess work out of the equation for him.

    Men like to hear compliments just as much as women. We sometimes tend to forget our similarities as humans and focus on the many differences between us but there are many commonalities. Think about what makes him unique and special and acknowledge it verbally to him from time to time. This will let him know at this turning point phase of your relationship that you still value him and remember what it is that makes you attracted to him.

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    Don’t let anyone tell you that finding new love in your 40’s is impossible either. Some of the most successful marriages were born with the bride in her 40’s. If you have held out on marriage until your 40’s you should be proud of yourself because at this stage, you probably have a better understanding of yourself, others and what you want in a relationship than a woman who is 30 does. If you are seeking love after a failed relationship you are better prepared to correct to seek out a partner that is more suited to you.

    Woman marrying in their 40’s in on the rise so the most important thing to keep in mind when seeking a new relationship at this age is that you are still a desirable woman. There are probably many men around you who are around the same age and in the same boat as you: either coming off a bad relationship or seeking love for the first time. Let your friends know that you are on the market and tell them what you are looking for in a man. Also don’t be afraid to sign up at online dating sites. If you use some rational discretion to weed out the weird ones you can probably find someone you really like.

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